A Love Affair

Victor Miller   -  

Using Love to Combat Disunity in a Broken World

In a world marked by conflict, division, and brokenness, the need for unity has never been more apparent. From international conflicts to local disputes, disunity seems to be tearing apart families, communities, and nations. However, there is a powerful force that can combat this disunity: love.

Why Is Unity Important in Today’s World?

Unity doesn’t happen naturally. In fact, the universe tends toward chaos and disorder. We must actively work to bring people together, and love is the force that makes this possible. But how do we use love effectively to combat disunity?

How Can We Love Sincerely?

The first step in combating disunity is loving sincerely, which involves two key components:

1. Let Your Love Be Genuine

  • Avoid hypocrisy in your love
  • Actively hate what is evil
  • Cling to what is good
  • Seek actions that glorify God

2. Make Your Love Brotherly

  • Show preference for others
  • Demonstrate diligence in relationships
  • Maintain active engagement
  • Prioritize time with family and church

What Does It Mean to Love Openly?

The second step involves demonstrating love through visible actions:

Blessing Others

  • Actively bless those who work against you
  • Choose blessing over retaliation
  • Extend kindness regardless of circumstances

Celebrating and Consoling

  • Rejoice with those who rejoice
  • Weep with those who weep
  • Be present in both good times and bad

Yielding to Others

  • Give up your right to revenge
  • Trust God’s justice
  • Choose peace over escalation

How Do We Love Rightly?

The final step is loving rightly by:

  • Overcoming evil with good
  • Understanding our purpose as God’s representatives
  • Recognizing our need for Christ’s transforming power

Life Application

This week, challenge yourself to:

  • Identify one relationship marked by disunity in your life
  • Choose one specific way to demonstrate sincere love to that person
  • Take action to love openly, even if it’s uncomfortable

Ask yourself:

  • Am I loving sincerely or hypocritically?
  • Where do I need to yield my right to revenge?
  • How can I actively engage in building unity in my relationships?
  • What practical steps can I take to overcome evil with good?

Remember, true unity begins with a transformed heart through Christ, leading to genuine love that can overcome the disunity in our world.